A bully or bullying is a form of aggressive behavior, which may manifest as abusive treatment, the use of force or coercion to affect others. It is basically a way to undermine or destroy a person on the basis of ability, physique or psyche using elements such as intimidation. So what exactly creates these bullies?
Bullies generally tend to pick on weaker people. It may include people who are physically weak or lack the ability to retaliate. A bully generally stalks his “target”, lingering around them to check if they are the submissive or the aggressive types. Then accordingly the bully moves in to “attack” the “target” either engaging them alone or with the help of his “lieutenants” or “friends” who share the same retarded desire to hurt the “target”. So why do bullies behave in this manner?
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Bullies generally believe themselves to be all mighty and powerful. You seldom see a tough guy trying to pick a fight or get into an argument with another tough guy. So technically these deluded losers gang up and pick on the weaker ones because they lack the courage or “the balls” to pick on people of their own size. It is solely because they cannot hurt anyone stronger than them, so to glorify or gratify their “bad boy” or “I’m so cool” image, they try it with the smaller “targets” to look “good” in front of their pathetic “girlfriends” or peers.
Knowing their boorish behavior, one can assume that they have parental issues and insecurities of all sorts. When you try to confront them, they either bullshit the death of a parent or both their parents or simply not being treated properly by their single parent (which may include being used as a driver and then being “tipped” – which is usually said in a much nicer way. Hey! Now I understand why they’re such assholes… Sympathy! :D). Begging for sympathy could be another possibility. Like if the “I’m a bad boy, date me” garbage doesn’t work, they’ll reduce to a tamed puppy who only knows how to lick and not bite in order to score with the girls. That’s like getting a girl over to your place and after all the “cock talks” you passed off to your guy friends earlier that day, instead of having sex with her, all you really want to do is cuddle (how romantic, especially since you’ve obviously had “sex” with “so many girls” in the past and suddenly you want to cuddle? Were you always a pussy or is the sudden change a plan to eventually get into the girl’s pants?). Either way, after all the cuddling, his friends receive a message, “I just got laid” (although he forgets to mention “in my dreams”).
The funniest part about bullies is the bullshit they vomit. The only thing common between a bully and a piece of shit is… oh! Wait… there is no difference. They will do anything and say anything to glorify themselves. For example: If they drink one beer, they tell everyone they drank maybe 4 or 5. This is the part I fail to see… Are they so obsessed with their macho-ism that they fail to see that what they speak makes no sense to them or the rest of the world? Some bullies barely of age to get a driving license claim to have killed people or rather threatened people with their lives. And yes, killing people makes one so macho! Pfft! A helpless man could also murder in self defense, my foolish friend. People fail to see that degrading yourself in society as a murderer makes you a moron and nothing else. You’re no different than the rest of the murderers, you aren’t cool and you are just a scum who lies to “look cool” in front of your peers. And the peers being bigger morons who actually buy this sort of crap. These are the people who if actually are handed a gun would first pee their pants and then pass out.
Bullies always want to be around the “hot” chicks or just the “good looking” ones in order to bolster their self-image as a “player” who “scores” with the ladies. Let us look at it this way - those girls don’t give two fucks about you! Get over it! Or they probably are just using you as temporary “bodyguards” or just a means of entertainment till their friends arrive and may discard you once the need is over. All they want to prove is that they are “good” with the “girls” and claim to have dated really “hot” girls but their definition of hot could hurt your eyesight or even cripple it to a certain extent or make you doubt the bully’s taste in women. Like this time a “macho” friend of mine told me his ex-girlfriend was hot and my eyes would pop out after looking at her. I saw her… my eyes popped out and went to the U.S. for an operation.
So technically these so called bullies are normal people like you and me. They have issues that have rendered them this way or it’s only because they do not get enough of love like normal people do because everyone hates them. It’s a cry for attention because they wouldn’t get it any other way. It may also be due to they getting bullied themselves by someone stronger than them. The muscle although, is a means to hide the inability to think or process like normal humans do (they always talk about some uninteresting boring crap which never has a single ounce of intelligence). Don’t be surprised if you walk into a bully’s room and find him sleeping while cuddling on a pillow on a Saturday night thinking that’s his so called “girlfriend” but you meet them the next day only to find them bragging/lying about what a crazy weekend they had. Lame but true. So the functioning of a bully is more pitiable than something to be afraid of. If you stand up to them once they will never approach you again. They are just an insecure lot who want to play their dominant cards while they still can. It is fun to watch their pathetic attempts at power-play and trying to control everything they see. A real miserable lot, might I add! :P
Bullying is not a new phenomenon; this problem has existed for long. Bullying has different levels depending on the location. For example: School, college, workplace or the area you reside in, etc. With proper help, co-ordination and support from each other (drag in the authorities if you have to) we can eradicate this problem of bullying or if possible eradicate these bullies themselves who degrade the significance of being human to a degree of impervious shame, untainted hypocrisy and sheer idiocy.
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